The Last Donut is a story from The Diamond Cutter, a book about putting Buddhist concepts to practice in business.
The story goes something like this…
You’re standing in line for a donut. A very specific donut. Your favorite donut. One that made you get out of bed and show up to wait in line at this delectable donut shop. Picture your favorite.
You’re next. The guy behind you is talking to his friend, “Oh I can wait for that {insert favorite donut}!! That’s the best donut in town man!
NEXT! You’re up. When you get to the counter there is the last donut {your favorite}. And so in order to get {your favorite donut}, and exactly because you like this flavor, you order a different kind and let the other person have the only {favorite} donut there. The idea is that two things happen: you provide this person with what they were wishing for, and you plant lots of mental seeds that assure you many, many {favorite donuts} in the future. (Adapted from page 256, The Diamond Cutter)
What happens to me in traffic is exactly the same. The more I give my space to someone else who wants the same thing, I end up getting more of my favorite space. It’s magic I tell you!